molly-ren: liminal-zone: #sometimes there are just things...
#sometimes there are just things #that you see or read #that are so fucking hot #you get this wave of nausea #and dizziness #like your blood changed direction too fast
Hugh Dancy in a collar
If there's gifs, someone somewhere filmed it
Oh man, someone please send me that video!
I'm on a brief hiatus due to moving to a new state. In the mean time, please enjoy this gif set.
workneverover: the smile changes everything
the smile changes everything
happybdsm: (Via The Telegraph) This is Terri-Jean Bedford,...
(Via The Telegraph)
This is Terri-Jean Bedford, pro-domme and one of the lead plaintiffs in a case that may overturn some significant restrictions on sex work and sex workers in Canada. I encourage people to read the linked article, particularly if you are interested in sex workers rights activism.
Ontario Superior Court Justice Susan Himel ruled in [Bedford's] favour and said prostitutes' constitutional rights to "life, liberty and security" under the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms were being violated.
In a 131-page ruling, the judge said: "I find that the danger faced by prostitutes greatly outweighs any harm which may be faced by the public."
The ruling "decriminalises" prostitution by allowing for pimping, the operation of brothels and open communication between sex workers and clients.
Following her court victory, which was unexpected, Miss Bedford cracked a riding whip at a press conference and said: "It's a great day for Canada. It's like emancipation day for sex trade workers.
"You can't imagine how happy I am today because I've been abused by the justice system for a very, very, very long time. The federal government must now take a stand and clarify what is legal and not legal between consenting adults in private.
"How am I going to celebrate? I'm going to spank some —-."
"Another problem with the sex positive movement is the idea that questioning the ethics of a fetish..."
"Another problem with the sex positive movement is the idea that questioning the ethics of a fetish is always "kink shaming". I think that whatever two adults do consensually is fine, but I also think that it's important to critically examine why so many people fantasize about rape or have really racist sexual fantasies. Any sex worker can tell you that people have disturbing and fucked-up fetishes, and the idea that we shouldn't question where those come from is ridiculous."-
From a Friend of the Site.
We couldn't have said it any better.
SW14
(via blackbdsm)
happybdsm: (Via Sacred kink Academy)
(Via Sacred kink Academy)
misslayton: He did not need a lot of talking into for this...
He did not need a lot of talking into for this one.
This is a lovely autobiographical comic by Miss Layton. I recommend reading the others, but of the ones posted so far, this is my favorite.
In a lot of the conversation surrounding female dominance, particularly dominance of male submissives, the discourse seems to revolve around what a male submissive can do for a female dominant. Can he trim the hedges, clean the kitchen, cook dinner? It seems like what a woman finds HOT rarely factors in. The relationship is about payment and services rendered, even if it isn't professional.
I think this is a reflection of the lack of focus on female sexual desire in our culture. That women even want anything at all. I love that this comic is about what Miss Layton wants.
"Although most boys figure out how to bring themselves to orgasm by age thirteen, half of girls do..."
"Although most boys figure out how to bring themselves to orgasm by age thirteen, half of girls do not have their first orgasms until their late teens, twenties, or beyond. Teenage girls widely agree that they get the message loud and clear that masturbation is something boys do, but girls do not, cannot, or should not. The cultural focus on intercourse tells young women to expect they will begin to experience sexual pleasure once they have sex with a man (whether or not they are even interested in sex with men). Nearly all teen boys, on the other hand, experience sexual pleasure long before they get their hands—or other body parts—into a partner's pants. Despite the massive advances in women's equality, young women's sexuality is stuck in a surprising paradox. Young women are sold provocative clothes but are not taught where to find their own clitoris. Many girls give their boyfriends oral sex, but are too uncomfortable with their own bodies to allow the guys to return the favor. It is still a radical act to say that women need and deserve access to information about their own sexual pleasure—not just about the risks and negative consequences of sex."- (via compulsives)
jimmybeaulieu: Jimmy Beaulieu, Plaza l'acide
GeekDomme: beyondthevalleyofthefemdoms: glitterfrick: Do I need some kind of...
GeekDomme: beyondthevalleyofthefemdoms: glitterfrick: Do I need some kind of...:Do I need some kind of secret Domme name so people will stop calling me Miss when they don't belong to me
Tell people who do that to stop doing it. Personally, I strongly dislike when honorifics are imposed on me. When a person isn't…
Sorry, that wasn't especially clear. I don't mean no honorifics EVER. Obviously "ma'am, sir" etc. is polite in a number of non-kink contexts. I mean in kink contexts, it's not a given and it's not OK. I get messages all the time from dudes who are clearly writing one-handed and calling me "Mistress this" and "Mistress that." If you explicitly say, "I like to be addressed as ____" on your profile, great. But it isn't default.
glitterfrick: Do I need some kind of secret Domme name so people will stop calling me Miss when...
Do I need some kind of secret Domme name so people will stop calling me Miss when they don't belong to me
Tell people who do that to stop doing it. Personally, I strongly dislike when honorifics are imposed on me. When a person isn’t involved with you in a power exchange sense, that person is your equal. By addressing you as “Miss,” “Mistress,” or another honorific, they aren’t being respectful. They’re non-consensually involving you in their fantasy.
disabledpeoplearesexy: from the German modelling/photography...
from the German modelling/photography project "AnderStark"… wow
I don't know German, but my friends who do have told me the article associated with this image is very interesting. More photos and article (in German) found here. http://www.anderstark.blogspot.co.uk/2011/07/eine-domina-mit-muskelschwund.html
If anyone wants to do a long-form translation, that would be awesome. I've only gotten the gist of it second hand.
To be honest, I wasn't sure if I wanted to reblog this....
To be honest, I wasn't sure if I wanted to reblog this. Most of the porn I've seen involving fat female doms seems to focus on and fetishize their fatness. Things like sitting on a submissive partner are a common motif. The result tends to be dehumanizing for both the top and bottom pictured- the top because they are reduced to this one physical trait, and the bottom because they are often faceless stand ins for the (male heterosexual) viewer.
And yet… There is something subversive about this image.The bottom also appears to be a fat woman, which subverts the emphasis on the human furniture/sitting aspect of the image being about the top's size. And that yellow glove curled around the top's ankle. It say something. It shows some kind of connection. It's unexpected, and I love it.
pr0nforsocialchange: weresealfurreal: excuse me internet, but...
excuse me internet, but can I put on my resume, "THIS BITCH GOT GREAT FRIENDS" ?
Some of my old queer friends being awesome. Gosh do I suck at staying in touch.
jimmybeaulieu: Jimmy Beaulieu, Plaza l'acide
girlsrule-subsdrool: seeinglines: A tender moment....
A tender moment. Photograph by EchoMoss.
Currently regretting missing this month's biggest play party. Three weeks til next month's… hopefully my next munch, a week from today, will help satisfy my craving for kinky socializing.
Lady riggers rock my socks. I have like, zero aptitude for rope. And the rope scene is often really male dom/rigger dominated.
unrepentantfatty: georgebataille: Random desert flogging. ...
Random desert flogging. BurningMan. Put up a post and they will cum.
I want to go to Burning Man so freaking bad.
happybdsm: (Venustus by Swift-Tiger)
diatheses: an anon recently asked me for strap-on blowjob gifs...
an anon recently asked me for strap-on blowjob gifs THIS IS YOUR LUCKY DAY
Admittedly, this picture is a little unusual, in that the focus isn't really on the dom. I'd like to post it anyway, though.
I get asked a lot about why I enjoy getting my strap-on sucked. After all, it's not like I actually get to feel anything, right? Some people (men especially) have expressed skepticism that this is something that women enjoy- let alone an activity that people enjoy when there are no men involved.
Sometimes kink isn't about what you feel. It's about what you think. And I think getting my dick sucked is fucking hot.
I like this picture for the following reasons: The Spare Parts harness is super practical, super comfortable, and not something you see in a lot of BDSM porn. Most seem to go for the leather harnesses, many of which seem to be improperly fitted. Most of my queer friends who like to wear cocks either have this harness or the Rodeoh, both of which are pretty great.
I like that this blow job looks more like one I might give or receive in real life. No vomit. I apologize to any vomit fetishists out there, but it's something I dislike, and it seems to even be a staple in vanilla porn these days.
I like the top's hand in the bottom's hair. Controlling, but not forcing.
unrepentantfatty: wittingperversion: naughty-tiger: intergalac...
Dom & Sub is a body of illustrative work in digital media that attempts to humanize practitioners of BDSM and offer a representation of kinky sex that not only refutes negative stereotypes but informs the audience that sadomasochistic play is done best between happy, healthy, and consenting adults. I portrayed the couple in the work not only engaging in S&M play but also building a "scene" together and nurturing one another after the play has concluded; these are moments often left unconsidered or completely ignored in visual representations of S&M. I believe it's important to see how kinky scenes are crafted with care, commitment to safety and enthusiastic consent in order to limit those times when sadomasochistic play is used to abuse or dehumanize other human beings. It is my hope that my audience will learn from the illustrations that sadomasochistic play is not always dark or scary, and that fellow 'kinksters' can enjoy tender representations of S&M that do not ridicule or pathologize them. I've designed the work to engage sadomasochistic imagery, material and theory with an ethical conscience.
YES YES YES
cute cute cute! <3
This is just too sweet not to reblog.
This is wonderful! I would love to see something similar with more realistic bodies. I love that they're wearing regular clothes though, and she's not oversexualized. This is exactly what bdsm in everyday life is like, if the world was populated by young, beautiful, thin people.
"Realistic bodies?" Thin people exist. Thin people are just as "realistic" as fat people. I do think there's a severe lack of BDSM iconography involving fat women that doesn't revolve around fetishization. (Plz submit your pics, people!) But saying that thin women aren't "realistic" or "real" women is not helping.
wittingperversion: naughty-tiger: intergalacticju: ladyogrady:...
Dom & Sub is a body of illustrative work in digital media that attempts to humanize practitioners of BDSM and offer a representation of kinky sex that not only refutes negative stereotypes but informs the audience that sadomasochistic play is done best between happy, healthy, and consenting adults. I portrayed the couple in the work not only engaging in S&M play but also building a "scene" together and nurturing one another after the play has concluded; these are moments often left unconsidered or completely ignored in visual representations of S&M. I believe it's important to see how kinky scenes are crafted with care, commitment to safety and enthusiastic consent in order to limit those times when sadomasochistic play is used to abuse or dehumanize other human beings. It is my hope that my audience will learn from the illustrations that sadomasochistic play is not always dark or scary, and that fellow 'kinksters' can enjoy tender representations of S&M that do not ridicule or pathologize them. I've designed the work to engage sadomasochistic imagery, material and theory with an ethical conscience.
YES YES YES
cute cute cute! <3
This is just too sweet not to reblog.
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